some things we don’t talk about…

I can be quite sensitive to people abusing my generosity, especially when it is expressed as my time

my friend Vi is a close friend but I can’t help but feel she takes my friendship for granted

she wanted to take me to lunch

I responded right away with a litany of dates

she did not respond to me for a whole fucking week to finally nail down a date…

my time is as important as yours, and as important as anyone else in your life…

when people start to do these things to me, I get angry, feel unappreciated

and I start to retaliate in kind, faster, and more harshly

 

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